Wandering thots(1)...

One thing that comes for free and at anytime, no matter what if you ask or don't...That's ADVIC(S)E!

Earlier days, I used to see people who offer advices as a great personality and think that they have experienced a lot in life...Well, quite a few comply to the above norm...I had this thought without knowing the fact told above. As years go, I realised this and experienced that people who offer advice just go by what they wanted to say instead of thinking whether they would do the same thing if they were in such a situation? Nay...

Hence I quit listening...and asking someone for it...I go by what I think and what I would like to do...That makes me happy and matured even I fail at times...Failure gives me pleasure...A stroke to move forward...I like SUCCESS after failing so many times...Not the SUCCESS @ the first shot! That makes me timid...

Having said all these, if you ask me whether I offer advice to anyone? Not by myself...But if someone asks me for it, I will put forth my thought and tell that it's my suggestion but it's ultimately going to be his/her wish...

I dislike giving advice and taking too...
Takeaway: Don't offer it when it is not required or asked for, particularly in this case