Monday, October 13, 2008

Unconditional love...

Guess who can give it? Anyone can...will be the answer if you do not understand the deep meaning of the question. But there's only one answer to this question, according to me. Tat's mom, of course :) That's how I have always felt and will feel anytime without any doubt. Although friends and other relations can give a sense of care and affection, nothing can beat that unconditional love of the motherhood.

When you were inside her belly, she did it!
When you are outside the world for the first time and you saw all the new faces around and cried aloud, she made you smile!

When you grew and played very late, she waited for you to come and eat and sleep quietly!

When you fought with your dad that you wanted to go for an Economics group and he didn't accept which made you cry, there she was soothing you and calming your father!

When you told about your crush/love to your mom, she was there waiting nervously to put that before your dad and get all the scoldings on behalf of you!

When you were there with her, she cared!
When you are miles away from her, she still cares and waits to see you with the same love that she showered you with,when you were born!

When you get married, she cries!
When you become successful, she still cries...all out of boundless joy!

What did she earn from all these? Nothing in return! But she never expects anything, judges and hates you for anything that you had done wrong in life.

Does she need you to earn money and success for all that you have been entitled to? Nah...Tats wat most fathers wanted for the money that they have invested on you all those years.

Does she need to soothe her when she is in a family feud? Nah...She can just see your photo and make herself smile and forget all the sorrows...There stands everything in life!

Does she needs you only when she is in pain and not in joy like most of your friends do? Nah...She just needs you to call her once a week and say 'How are you?...That makes her day shiny!

Does she shows love at first and takes everything for granted like your partner? Nah...She just does the former and not the latter.

Does she gives you only those things that she never liked or wanted that your sisters/brothers do? She can even give her expensive necklace or the one thing that she liked the most in her entire life, for the sake that she loves you more than that.

Is she like your relatives who can tell you should have done like this, that and makes you feel a sense of discomfort? Nah...She wants you to enjoy what you do and never want you to get hurt. That's what she wanted in life through you!

Is she like people who give gifts only for the reason that you gifted them? No...Neither does she give you gifts nor do you...That's the whole essence of this 'unconditional love'!!!

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2 Comments:

At January 30, 2009 at 10:20 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

I feel the same way about my ma too

 
At February 1, 2009 at 10:23 AM , Blogger Raji U said...

Yes definitely unconditional love..

 

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